I did mine in a black hammertone, like gloss black with silver specs. Looked good, plus the guy had a lot of it and made me a deal. I'll try and find an old pic. I wouldn't do the swingarm, if anything I'd strip it. Natural looks better with age.
If you do the washes for the steering head, the top edge of the head tube will not be coated. The other option is just use masking tape on the races, and ask the coater if he can remove it after coating and before it goes into the oven.
My '12 looks real nice and has held up excellent. My '07 isn't bad, just a bit dull. My '00 and '03 nickel frames were pretty poor in spots. I thought about the spray on bedliner coating for the lower spars before the frame guards existed.