Excellent advice, Neil.
blamir,
Here is my recommendation for where you are now in your quest.
The 40 pilot is a bit too lean, causing the starting issue, and the change in the clip position is causing the "rich condition symptoms" at low throttle settings.
Give the NECJ one more chance, and after repacking the silencer (to keep from getting a false reading on your jetting test), try going back to the 42 pilot jet and moving the clip to the second groove from the top to lean out (and clean up) the "off idle" power delivery.
Then, give it a good long multi-ride test.
I think you will like the power and feel of the power delivery.
These are my current settings, and spooge is minimal on it.